It would obviously be highly offensive and traumatizing for you to use any other pronoun, verb, preposition, noun, or adverb in relation to us. No matter what we happened to actually be doing, the only thing you are allowed to say to describe it is: “We are elegantly swimming in the Indian Ocean.” That is how we identify. Those are the words that speak most intimately to our inner experience. That, therefore, is the one and only sentence you are ever allowed to say to us, about us, or around us. That is our sentence. Go get your own sentence.